These days, as popular as swinging is and with as many places to find someone to hook up with, there’s no need to do anything dumb – or costly - to find a compatible swinger couple.
First, do NOT hire a hooker to get you into a swinger party. If you really want to go and there’s no way your significant other is going to agree…well, make a decision how important swinging is to you. If it’s so important you’ll throw away your marriage – well, take care of that first.
But DON’T bring in a hooker to a party, whether it’s on-premise or off-premise. It’s very easy to spot – look for the mis-matched couple with the guy drooling over ever female in the room and the girl looked bored off her ass. Most people who frequent swing clubs have seen it happen, and you’ll end wasting your money – nobody’s gonna touch a guy who brought a hooker.
That said, there ARE some swing clubs that allow single guys – sometimes on special nights. Check with the swing club for their particular rules. For couples, whether you want to attend a swinger party on a night that single guys are allowed in is your choice – some couple like having more men than women on hand, but many couples hate being swarmed upon by a bunch of single guys and avoid ‘single guy’ nights altogether.
Also, be very careful when pulling out your wallet to join a swinger site – make sure you’re picking one we’ve recommended (they are all legit and will NOT rip you off!). Some sites will make you THINK you’re gonna find some easy pickup, when in reality they’re just trying to get you to spend more money on a private 1-on-1 jerk-off session with an online webgirl (not that there’s anything wrong with 1-on-1 webcam shows, us girls do them on PrivateCamz and they’re fun, but it’s NOT swinging!)
