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Simple definitions: an off-premise swinger party is simply a place for swingers to meet, flirt, drink and dance. An on-premise swinger party is a party in which sexual contact is allowed.

While it’s become very popular to meet swingers online, swinger parties - hosted by organized swinger clubs – is probably still the most popular way to ‘meet’ swingers. Even couples who meet online often go together to swinger parties to meet and be with people of similar interests.
When it comes to swinger parties, there’s a clear distinction between on- and off-premise. Off-premise parties risk being shut down if it’s discovered that sexual contact is going on, so most off-premise party places have strict rules about ‘going too far’…many restrict any nudity or even ‘flashing’ and anything more ‘dirty’ than the dirty dancing you might see in an R-rated movie is against the rules. Get caught giving a blowjob at an off-premise party and you risk getting kicked out for good!
Party-goers generally bring their ‘party clothes’ – whatever sexy outfit they are daring enough to wear – with them to a party and change in the bathroom or some other closed place before entering the party. You don’t want to be parading around in your too-short mini-skirt and fuck-me pumps through a parking lot that’s in plain site of anyone underage…and most parties have rules about keeping sufficiently covered when you’re anywhere outside the designated ‘party room.’
People who attend off-premise parties generally have a hotel room ready to go back to – either at the end of the night or when they’ve discovered a couple they just can’t wait to have fun with. Many off-premise parties take place in hotel ballrooms, so there’s the convenience of just running back up the room when it’s time for the after-party fun to start. But remember to keep that distance between party and hotel room ‘covered up.’
On-premise parties might look pretty similar at first glance…a bar, dance floor, tables, chairs and couches and other party-related fun. But on-premise parties also have rooms available on-location to have sex in without having to go anywhere else.
On-premise parties may have strict rules about where in the club sexual contact is made (although at some clubs, anywhere inside the front door is fair game!); most will give you a thorough initiation the first time you visit. Make sure you follow the club’s rules if you want to stick around and have fun!