DON’T forget the Golden Rule of Swinging – NO means NO.
DON’T ever force – even passively – your significant other to try swinging or any swinging activity. Let them take things at their pace.
DON’T lie about yourself, your partner or your relationship. If you’re a married guy looking to cheat, say so, don’t pretend that your wife is willing to participate when she’s not.
DON’T expect to bullshit swingers. Most swingers have heard every piece of crap ever uttered by a desperate guy and know when they’re being bullshitted.
DON’T expect to ‘get lucky’. When it happens, be happy!
DON’T ignore rules you and your significant other have set. DON’T ignore rules a swinger couple have told you that they have set.
DON’T feel you have to play with someone you don’t want to play with!
DON’T use drugs at swinger parties. Anything that you do that could get the party shut down is a big don’t!
DON’T stress out…everyone has some nervousness when starting out, it’s natural!
DON’T tell the world about your conquests…swingers have a code of discretion – what happens between swingers STAYS between swingers!
DON’T be pushy. Be friendly, be somewhat aggressive if that’s your style, but DON’T be pushy. You’ll turn off far more people than you’ll turn on when being pushy.
DON’T have sex without a condom unless you know it’s safe. DON’T assume the other person has a condom with them, bring your own.
DON’T freak out if you see others having condom-less sex if you don’t know the situation.
DON’T ignore what someone tells you during sex – if they tell you they like or dislike something, follow their wishes!
DON’T get so caught up at a swinger party that you forget your significant other…and remember to share your experiences!
DON’T hire a hooker to get you into a couples-only party…it’s way beyond bad taste, it’s been done so many times that it’s easy for the ‘real’ swingers to spot, and you’ll end up wasting your money ’cause nobody’s gonna touch ya…find a REAL partner!
DON’T forget to thank your hosts and hostesses at any swinger gathering…there’s a LOT of work involved in putting parties together!
